When I wrap my arms around an attractive woman, the intense pleasure I feel is hard to express in words. My pulse quickens, and all too often, the blood begins pulsating in my crotch. Thin women are light and feel tiny in a man’s embrace.
But there is something special about a plus-sized woman. A BBW woman is the complete package: a sweet personality combined with a uniquely arousing sexual hunger drives men crazy. So men should consider BBW dating.
BBWs exude self-confidence, sweetness and converse candidly and honestly. Her dates soon understand that she is confident about her image. What you do not know is that she might also be full of insecurities. After all, society pressures women to be thin and fit, even though we see more plus-sized models today. Here are 5 things to keep in mind when you’re on a date with a big, beautiful woman.
#1. Admire her body and tell her how good she looks
Admit it, guys. All those curves and softness turn us on. Be frank with her and tell her why you’re attracted to women like her. Although she’s proud of her body and takes care of herself, she wants to know you like what you see.
Women spend time getting ready or dates, and a big, beautiful woman is no exception. She wants you to find her pleasing to look at and to know you accept her as she is.
#2. Do not date a BBW with the idea of changing her
If this is the first time you are in the BBW dating scene, remember that she’s pleased with her body just the way it is. She wants approval and acceptance of the bigger woman that she is. Do not ever offer to help her lose weight, for that will be the last time you see her.
Not all of us are shaped the same way. I have an athletic shape, but my brother is larger. He has tried repeatedly to lose weight, but in no time, he gains it back. He’s heavier but seems happier to be that way.
Some people just do not get it. Society places great emphasis on thinness, so bigger women can be judged for not fitting in the thin, athletic mold. Women are pressured to conform, to be like everyone else. Big, beautiful women dare to let the world see they’re different, and they accept themselves that way.
#3. You’re not the only suitor interested in her
Remember, you’re not the only man interested in BBW dating. Today everyone feels under pressure, and many women (and men) are more selective than ever before. As a result, people today do not want to invest time into building a foundation for a successful relationship.
From my experience and the experience of other guys I’ve talked with, there’s a lot of tension when on a date like never before! But I never feel tension when I’m on a date with a big, sexy girl. Dating a larger woman is always a fun, enjoyable experience. I am enamored not only to her physical appearance but also her warm, inviting personality.
Other men see these same attractive traits, so do not ever assume your BBW date is desperate. She has more suitors than you but is decent enough not to talk about it when she’s with you.
#4. Take her to a coffee shop on the first date
Last month I met a large, curvy woman who worked at a bank. Of all the women there, I couldn’t keep my eyes off the object of my desire. I didn’t know anything about her yet, so I played it conservatively.
I set up the date at a coffee shop because I didn’t know if she would be sensitive about eating in front of me. It turns out I made the right decision because we spent hours talking and drinking coffee in a place that was comfortable and encouraged socializing. In addition, I got to know her and listened to her talk about herself.
On a side note, men should always confidently suggest somewhere to meet rather than ask your date where they’d like to go. Almost every time, a woman, especially a BBW, will agree to meet at the place you’ve chosen. Women, in general, do not want the burden of suggesting a place to go. Unanimously they prefer men to make that decision.
#5. Stay away from sex talk on the first date
Experienced men know that BBW women are super sexy in ways other women are not. Many have large breasts, soft like a down pillow, and warm and inviting to the touch. The waist on a BBW curves out to wide hips and thick, supple legs.
You look at her and listen to her talk, but all you want to do is take her to bed. It’s not your fault; a big woman is a special treat. Big women are very good in bed, and they know what men want and how to please them.
However, while wanting to have sex with your sexy BBW is one thing, asking her to sleep with you right after meeting her is a huge mistake! Instead, let her reveal all her charms to you first. Then, listen to her closely, find out what she is looking for, what she likes and dislikes. BBW women are talkative and can often be very funny as well.
There will be time for sex if you show her you respect her and are you’re glad she is with you.
When you engage in BBW dating, you’re engaging with a special kind of woman. BBWs are confident in themselves and in their ability to attract men. As a result, you may be surprised how relaxed you are in her company.
If your first date leads to a second date and you become emotionally involved with her, reject the judgment of your friends. Instead, be proud of the luscious creature on your arm, and do not be afraid to show her off wherever you go.
In today’s dating world, BBWs are capable of the greatest affection. Once they commit to a serious relationship, you will find them loyal and trustworthy. But large, curvy women need affection from men like us. They need pampering and being told how gorgeous they look and how happy they make you.